How Absence and Presence of Parents Shape Our Relationships
A conversation with podcaster Sebastian Tigges and couples coach Lina Marie Gralka
Image credit: Diana Markosian, from the series Father, 2014-2025 © Diana Markosian
As part of the exhibition Father by Diana Markosian, we invite you to a conversation at the museum. Drawing on Markosian’s personal story, her long separation from her father, the search for him, and their eventual reunion, this discussion explores how early relational experiences form patterns that continue to shape our relationships, often unconsciously, to this day.
Our guests include Berlin-based couples coach Lina Marie Gralka, who explains why we so often build the very walls in relationships that leave us feeling lonely today, and how we can find our way back to genuine emotional safety. Podcaster Sebastian Tigges is joining her, who shares personal experiences and reflects on how such patterns can be questioned and unlearned step by step.
The talk is held in German. With your ticket you can visit all exhibitions on the same day.
ABOUT THE SPEAKERS
Sebastian Tigges
Sebastian Tigges is a podcaster, author, and creator. In his previous life, he worked as a lawyer at a large law firm – but after the birth of his first child, he left that job and has since focused on exploring fatherhood, masculinity, and equal partnership in his podcasts and on Instagram.
Since launching his Instagram series The Walking Dad, Sebastian has become one of Germany’s most well-known “dadfluencers.” His first book, Becoming Dad, will be published by Piper in May 2026.
Lina Marie Gralka
Lina Marie Gralka is a brand strategist and couples coach based in Berlin. With a background as a long-time consultant for various companies, she brings clarity, structure, and emotional depth to her work. Drawing from Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and systemic coaching, she sees relationships as dynamic systems: complex, evolving, and worth intentional care. Lina Marie supports couples strengthen their connection by identifying emotional patterns early, fostering open communication, and creating a shared vision for the future. Her approach is preventative and personal: it’s about creating the relationship that truly fits you.